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Wednesday, December 14, 2005
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I'm bored. Its been a while since I have visited my blog. I have been sleeping a lot lately. Monday night I came home and got in the bed at 7:30 pm. I woke up at 8:00 the following morning. Either I am that tired or lazy. You guys pick. Its raining tonight and the lightening is getting to me. Aside from that remember the guy I met who is from Brooklyn. Well he has started calling again. We email each other often, but the phone calls had slacked because it was easier to email. At least in my opinion it was easier to email. He mentioned that he wants to see me. I want to see him too, but I guess I am being cautious. He asked if he could come here or if I would prefer to come see him. He offered to take care of the accomodations. The only problem is that he is dating someone. He constantly tells me how he and her no longer have anything in common, but isn't that what they all say. Why shouldn't I proceed with caution? I am attracted to him which is all the more reason for me to be careful. Granted I don't know what type of relationship he and her have, but I certainly don't want to become "the other woman." He asked if we could take things slow and see where this road takes us. I said sure but I want him to keep in mind that I am looking at the reality of things and because he has someone, I am not going to put much stock into it. In addition to that, we are miles apart. I won't shut the door completely, but I won't leave it wide open to allow heartache to come in and make a nesting place in my heart either.
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The new meds probably have your sleep schedule screwed up.
And as for the man. Bleah. Maybe they have nothing in common and blah blah blah. So why doesn't he leave? If you don't want to be the other woman then tell him the next time he says that they've grown apart or whatever that as soon as he wraps that up you would like to explore what you might have with him. Set your standards high *before* you get involved and then you don't have to worry about him giving you what you deserve later.
I knew you would be able to give me some good insight about this. I don't want to be rude but at the same expense I don't want to be a fool either. I think I am still at a stage where I will let what he says go in one ear and out the other. In many ways I would want that type of attention but am I willing to pay the cost for it? The answer to that question is no.
Just remember this piece of advice.... if he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you. In other words, if he's sneaking around on the girlfriend to be with you, if you develop a long term relationship with him, in the back of your mind you will know that he's the kind of man who cheats on his girlfriend. You would always have that seed of doubt.
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