Let's Talk About It

It happens and we can't get past it. Is it just human nature for people to cheat on their "loved ones." Because this is my blog, I am going to keep it real. I love sex just as much as the next person. Maybe more. But because I know that little fact, I typically do not push the issue of relationships with men. It seems, to me anyway, easier to just stay single and see all the people you want. I know someone who is dating someone and she has her reservations about what he may be doing when he isn't in her presence. Now of course when my opinion is asked, I just simply say don't do anything until you accumulate enough evidence. But I think she is coming upon enough evidence to indict this guy someday. And as a result, she is entertaining the idea of "having someone on the side." Which brings me to my next point. I think by nature women are nurturing creatures. And no woman I know started out cheating. It's only when we get fed up with how we are treated that we change and start to take on this "I don't give a fuck" attitude. And as a result, the next man who comes along catches hell. I honestly think if my friend sentiments are well founded, then she will never look at men or relationships the same. I also think she will take on some of my beliefs and practices as it relates to men and relationships. I truly hate to think of my friend in that state of mind because she is the nicest and most honest person I know. But it would be nice to have my old friend back who believes her shit don't stink. We could go out creepin and instead of looking for "Mr. Right", only deal with Mr. Right Now. Holla!!!!