A Few Dumb Men

I am not one to pay attention to too many things or people for that matter. The older I get, the more of a loner I seem to become. Not to mention since my best friend told me I was high maintenance, I really feel like I am better off by myself. If you didn't read the post regarding high maintenance women, its the February 9th post that I just posted today. But back to this blog. In my line of business I meet a lot of police officers. There have only been one or two to catch my eye over a span of five years, and even they didn't keep my attention span. I will admit there was one that I had sex with and I haven't called him since, but I can't help it if I lost interest in him after sex. In recent weeks, there has been another cop whom I found attractive, but I wasn't interested enough to find out more about him. One night he called to see if I needed him in court the following day. As Iwas talking to him, I heard a newborn baby crying in the background. I asked if it was his baby and he said yes. Because the baby was only four months, I figured it safe to assume that a woman was in the picture. With that in mind, I certainly didn't give him any additional thought. However, fatherhood didn't stop him from placing another call to me asking me if my phone call to him (weeks ago) was personal or business. The phone call was business and it was a return call to him regarding a case. I told him the nature of the call and I inquired into why he was asking. He told me he found me attractive. However, I had to be honest and tell him I figured he was at least involved with someone considering he has a four month old baby. He told me that he is married, BUT has extra-marital affairs. That was a huge turnoff to me. That conversation inspired this blog. Here is a list of things men do that turns me off.

1. I admire the honesty of a man who tells me upfront that he is married. What I hate is when he calls me everyday and have the audacity to ask me why I don't call him back or call him at all. Hey jackass.....you're married!!! I don't owe you no fucking explanation as to why I don't return your calls or call you at all.

2. I hate it when a man constantly call me knowing I am sick, and all he wants to do is talk about himself. Hey jackass....I am sick!!!! That's why I'm not answering the fucking phone. Quit calling me.

3. I hate it when a man constantly talk about how good they are when it comes to sex and how often he has to have sex. Hey jackass....if you have to tell a woman about how good you are in bed, that usually means you suck at sex!!!! Shut the fuck up.

4. I hate it when a man says the only thing a white woman can do for him is point him in the direction of a sister. Hey jackass....my last name ain't X or Shabazz. There's nothing wrong with interracial dating. Trust me when I say I look past color when it comes to men.

5. I hate it when a man pops up in court to talk to me because I didn't answer my phone, then sit around and wait until I am finish with court. Hey jackass....I am at work doing what I get paid to do. If I wanted to talk to you, then I would answer the phone when you call or call you back once I have realized that I have missed your call. Leave me the fuck alone.

If any one wants to add to the list of turnoffs, then feel free to amend. This is not the list in its entirety, but it certainly is a start....